This blog is designed to remember ourselves as a logical-minded people .. I hope your criticism and comments on all videos, this is for us as a teen-ridden in our surroundings..moreover....enjoy laa~
Be her type. Ok, so this one isn’t completely fair, but it falls under the category of accepting the things you cannot change when thinking about how to attract women. At day’s end, most girls have a particular type of man that they are attracted to, and no matter how great you might be, if you are not the her type, you will have to put more effort into this thing. It will be a different kind of effort. This is where you leave the regular road taught to you by almost everybody and step a whole different place. Now you have to implement the explosive player tactics.
Be clean cut. Lucky for you, this is something you can control. Make a promise to yourself today, as you read this article, that you will never again be the guy picking his visibly dirty fingernails and trying to figure out why you can’t attract a nice girl. If cleanliness, or at least the appearance there of, isn’t your strong suit, it is probably safe to attribute your inability to attract a girl to that.
Be her aphrodisiac; smell good. Hands down, girls love a man that smells good. Once you make a commitment to being clean, commit to spraying on a few squirts of cologne. One of best strategies for drawing all these beautiful ladies to you is being the man that walks by and leaves a lingering scent. The gesture itself is not only sexy, but also memorable, because when they smell that scent again, the girl will automatically think of you.
Be stylish. So you don’t have to be the world’s best dresser, but your style should be contemporary enough to not cause any red flags in the fashion department. Obviously, wide-legged pants and butterfly collars would not be considered attractive to girls, but a pair of jeans, a nice polo shirt and some trendy but practical sneakers will not only attract a girl, but leave her feeling confident about your fashion sense.
Be considerate. Even if you haven’t exchanged as much as a glimpse with the girl, holding the door for her, helping her remove her coat, or pulling out her seat are all things that would reveal just how considerate you are and increase a girl’s attraction to you. If you are really trying to attract a girl, show her that chivalry is in fact, not dead, and that there are still a few good ones to pick from.
Two words to adequately sum up all of the aforementioned tips are “Be memorable.” Leave a lasting impression. Because the truth is that even after you’ve succeeded in attracting the girl, if you haven’t done anything to make yourself stand out in her memory, you might find yourself explaining to her who you are when you call her a week later trying to schedule a date. As if the first conversation isn’t awkward enough, you don’t want to spend five minutes of that conversation reminding her of who you are. Being clean, smelling good, having style, showing chivalry, and accepting that you weren’t created t obe liked all girls, but the girl, indeed makes you that much more attractive and brings you closer to your goal of learning how to attract women.
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up....
I wish everyone in this world know Islam correctly and want to learn Islam correctly, I believe this world will be peaceful, especially for my country, Indonesia. I wish every one who run this nation use the Islamic ways, I believe there will be less corruptor or criminal in Indonesia, but once again, they only use Islam as they Identity and that's what make Islam looks bad in the International view. But, I believe someday will be the one who want to sacrifice themselves for the glory of Islam again and I hope that day will come soon. BecauseAllah Teach us how to live and why don't we follow that?NennaWaala really want to do something for the glory of Islam, mostly for the glory of this world, for everyone in this world!
There are many scientific facts that describe the health benefits of the hijab.
U V Radiation of the Sun and Skin Cancer
Medical experts have always warned us against the damaging effects of the suns’ harmful rays, particularly the ultraviolet (UV) radiation. The UV rays from sunlight penetrate the atmosphere and are responsible for causing many health conditions such as premature skin aging, eye damage (including cataracts), and skin cancers. They also suppress the immune system, thus, reducing the ability to fight off diseases and other maladies.
A leading medical magazine has brought to attention and increasing problem of “melanoma”, a deadliest form of skin cancer that arises due to long term exposure to direct sunlight. It is highly prevalent amongst women, mainly because the dress sense that they usually adopted means that large parts of their bodies are uncovered and thus, exposed to the harmful effects of UV radiation. The legs are the most common part of the body that is largely afflicted by this disease, mainly because of the short length skirts that women commonly wear.
As UV rays can penetrate through clouds, fabric and glass, wearing transparent clothing will not provide sufficient protection from this type of cancer.
Medical experts recommend people to cover up with loose-fitting clothing, especially those made with tightly woven fabrics as they provide a greater barrier between the skin and the sun. Bright or dark-coloured clothing tend to reflect more UV radiation than pastel coloured clothing and bleached cottons.
Effects of Hot Weather
Spending long hours in hot weather without sufficient protection can be damaging to health, particularly, the brain. Long term exposure to heat can deplete many essential elements present in the body, namely phosphorous.
Phosphorous provides strength to bones and teeth and is potent in performing essential activities for different body parts like the brain, kidneys and heart.
A leading health specialist discovered that phosphorus depletes at temperatures of 108 °F. A human body can easily reach such temperatures when exposed to the hot sun for any length of time without sufficient protection. Frequent and long term exposure to such temperatures can result in overheating of the head that increases the risk of irreversible brain damage and memory loss.
For this reason, health advisors recommend people to wear a broad-brimmed hat and UV-blocking sunglasses to help shield sensitive skin on the head, neck, and around the eyes as these are the areas that usually sustain a lot of sun damage.
Effects of Cold Weather.
Exposure to cold weather conditions upsets the equilibrium of the human body that results in ill-health. Frequent exposure to cold and windy conditions without sufficient protection increases the risk of suffering from colds and flu with aches, pains and shivers.
Medical tests revealed that 40-60% of body heat is lost through the head and people are advised to protect their heads in such wintery conditions. It is proven that wearing a hat during the winter months provides 50% more protection from heat loss than being without a head covering. It is also advised to wrap up warm to stay away from drafts.
Hygiene
In some professions, workers are required to wear some sort of head covering for hygiene purposes such as, nurses, fast food workers, health care providers and many more.
The head-covering ensures cleanliness and purity and prevents cross contamination and spread of infections and diseases.
Summary of Protective Measures
Health specialists advise people to protect themselves from UV radiation, both indoors and out. It is advised to:
- Remain in the shade between 10 am to 4 pm.
- Cover up with loose-fitting clothing, especially those made with tightly woven fabrics
- Wear a broad-brimmed hat and UV-blocking sunglasses
- Apply suitable sunscreens especially on babies over the age of six months.
- Examine the skin from head-to-toe every month.
- and see the doctor every year for a professional skin exam.
In wintery conditions, health officials advise people to:
- Wrap up and keep warm
- Cover the head
- and keep away from cold drafts
Islamic Dress Code
Over all, health officials have perfectly described the ‘Islamic dress code’ by recommending that the best form of clothing to wear should be good quality, loose fitting clothing that cover the maximum amount of skin.
The versatility of this type of clothing is that it can be cool and comfortable to wear during the summer months and yet warm and insulating in the winter months.
The headscarf or any form of head covering provides protection from both extremes of temperatures and guards the vital organs from sustaining damage from each of the extremes.
The Islamic dress maintains a state of balance within the human body that helps keep it healthy through out its lifetime. This proves that there are always valid reasons behind any divine rulings and regulations given to mankind and it is clear that the wisdom of Allah in prescribing such rulings related to hijab and the Islamic dress code provides protection not only from sociological and psychological issues but from a health perspective too.
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A boy said to his father:
"I saw a girl and I want to marry her. She is so beautiful and she has gorgeous eyes. The father answered his son: of course son, let’s ask for her hand in marriage."
When the father saw the girl, he admired her beauty and he told his son: "You don’t deserve this girl, she needs someone who has experience in life and she can depend on, someone like..... me."
The boy was surprised by the attitude of his father and he told him :
"She will marry me, not you”. They started to fight and finally they decided both to go to the police station to solve their problem.
When they tell their story to the police officer, he told them:”bring the girl so we can ask her about her opinion about this. " When the officer saw the beauty of the girl he said to the boy and his father:”you both don’t deserve her, she needs someone who has prestige like me.”
The 3 men started a fight and decided to go to the minister to solve their problem. When the minister saw the girl, he said: "She deserves to be married with a minister like me”. The prince heard about their problem and call them all to help them solve it but and when he saw the girl he said : "This girl will marry me” .
All the 5 men started to fight. Finally, the girl said “I have the solution! I will start to run and whoever catches me first, he will be my husband”. When she started to run, the boy, his father, the police officer, the minister and the prince started to run to catch her. Suddenly the 5 men fell into a deep hole.
The girl looked to them from the top and she said
“did you know who am I?”
I am the Dunya THE LIFE!!
People want to run to catch me, they are racing to have me.
By doing that, they forget their religion,
until they end up in their grave and won’t have me....!
Have you ever walked into a school to find children sitting on bare floor or on grasses to receive lessons? Many times, I question why the standard education in Nigeria is depreciating instead of appreciating. There are very little or no resources in the schools. The quality and access to good education is lacking. It is so unfortunate that most public/government schools have been completely abandoned by the government if not for the intervention of some charity and development organisations. The answer to the question above is not far fetched. Private schools have taken the place of public schools while the public schools have been left in their deplorable state. The rich and those who are able to afford private schools, send their children there, while others send their children outside the shores of the country to study. However, how long will we have to put up with these poor standards of our education system? I am looking forward to when the commitment to the development to the education system in communities will be one of the criteria for electing candidates into government regardless of the position they are vying for. I think the whole idea of government leaders sending their children to private schools and outside the country is not helping as this makes many of them nonchalant about the system. i am always happy when I and my friend learn about the successes of School Based Management Committees (SBMCs)in some communities. Since communities can not wait for the government for everything, it is good to learn about some of the efforts of these SBMCs in taking ownership of the schools in their communities, re-building dilapidated structures, sourcing for funds and equipping the schools with resources. I am looking forward to when our education system will grow to the level of competing amongst the world’s best schools and institutions. When we will have political leaders, who will not only be concerned about their own political ambitions but also make the problems of the education sector their problems while working towards the improvement of the sector and access to quality education for all.
When boys text you "I wish you were here" when they're missing you. ♥ When boys have a cute picture of you and him in his wallet, so he can show it off when people ask him "Do you have a girlfriend?". When boys are your best friend, before they're your boyfriend. ♥ When boys make you smile by them just doing the smallest things When boys have that perfect white smile. ♥ When you look over at him and notice he was already looking at you. When boys give you your first smile of the day.♥ When boys take an interest into what you like. When boys take care of you when you're sick. When boys don't care what anyone thinks, as long as you're happy. ♥ When boys FIGHT for your relationship, when things are getting rocky. ♥ Ladies remember, fall in love with someone who deserves your heart. Not someone who plays with it. ♥ When boys introduce you to their family. When boys call you in the morning just to say they want to spend the day with you. ♥ When boys text you, just to ask how your day is going. When boys smile at you and you instantly forget about ALL your problems and smile too. ♥ When boys make you forget about all of the heartbreaks you have had before. ♥ When boys have a cute baby face. When boys are absolutely, definitely, positively, unquestionably, no strings attached, beyond any doubt, unconditionally in love with you. Every woman deserves a man who respects her and every man deserves a woman who appreciates his effort. When you two fight and he says "I'm sorry." first, even if it wasn't his fault you two fought. ♥ When you and him have the SAME favorite song. ♥ When boys feed you, in that cute way. ♥ When boys stay up on the phone with you, until you fall asleep. When boys smile as soon as they see your face. When boys know how to make you smile, when you're mad...
How sweet of boys characteristic...why should misunderstanding happens? it's becoz sometimes our fault gurl,wanna know more about boys! COMING SOON..:)
• 99.9% lelaki amat pandai masak kari…..tapi megi kari saja la.
• Lelaki kadang2 memang suka memasak….tapi amat malas nak basuh periuk belanga serta pinggan mangkuk…
• Apabila lelaki memasak umpama sedang bertukang umah… bukan
main bising lagi.
• Adalah kebiasaan lelaki memasak tanpa memakai baju…pastu,
sambil isap rokok plak…
• Menu utama masakan lelaki adalah telur goreng, sardin, telur
goreng dan juga meggi. Tak ketinggalan jugak kicap masin…
• Jika seorang lelaki yg rajin memasak, anda akan dapati gas
masakan akan cepat habis, kerana lelaki memasak selalunya guna
api yg kuat…cepat sikit masak.
• Keadaan dapur rumah orang lelaki yang bersepah sepah adalah
satu pemandangan biasa yang mempunyai nilai artistiknya yang
tersendiri…
• Dan lelaki tidak akan merungut sekiranya masakan itu dimasak
oleh seorang lelaki..tetapi peng’komplen’ nombor satu jika
makanan itu di masak oleh wanita.. Antara sebab sebab lelaki memasak:
• Malas nak pegi kedai
• Hampir hampir pokai
• Nak menghabiskan stock makanan yang dah nak expired
• Mental theraphy
• Konon konon nak practice…nanti buleh amik hati pasangan
• Buang tebiat…
Walaupun begitu, chef chef terkemuka dunia masih terdiri daripada
kaum lelaki......hehehehee...
1.) Dia bekerja dengan Allah..jadi 'kilang
'manusia.Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh..
7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang tetapi Allah
anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.
2.) Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari. Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati
tapi, cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah..Orang
lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang...sembahyang wajib
baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya..
3.) Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita, sepanjang dia
mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya..lahir saja bayi, seluruh
dosanya habis.. Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita, jadi
kenapa perlu takut nak beranak? Marilah kita pegang kepada tali
Allah. Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap
mati syahid.. Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga..Untuk orang kafir dia
tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran siksa kubur.
4.) Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami: Seluruh
kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-
dosa suami dia tak tanggung.
5.) Diakhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat
dengan Pahala extra yang banyak dia terima diatas segala kebaikan
suaminya yang tak disedari.. Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah
terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat,dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa
suaminya, jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk
lepas masuk syurga. Didunia lagi, kalau suami dalam
kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah
lagi di akhirat. Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut, mulut
selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra
ini.
6. )Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat
didalam dan diluar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri
yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan
dosa-dosa yang lain. Dinasihatkan kepada semua
wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka
denganNya. Dan semua lelaki fahami hati
naluri seorang wanita & isteri agar tidak derhaka denganNYA.......
There were two brothers, who grew up together in a family. First one was a successful school principal, very disciplined and organized. He was respected by students & teachers alike. When asked about the reason for his success, he replied, " It's all because of my father. He was a disciplinarian & never tolerated breaking of any rules. I worked out my own ways to ensure that I don't give him any reason to complain. I owe my success to him."
The other brother turned out to be a ruffian who didn't have any job & ended up in jail many times. When asked about the reason for this behaviour, he replied, " It's all because of my father. He was a great tyrant & authoritarian & never tolerated any of my mistake. One day I couldn't take it any more, rebeled & left my house. He is responsible for destroying my life."
Our life is made of 10% what happens to us, over which we have no control and 90% how we react to it. However, normally we blame our circumstances (which is just 10%) for all our problems.
same as, we were born in different culture, and different background... but the motive and purpose of Our LIFE is ONE, i.e to OBEY the ALMIGHTY in the way that He wants...!!
When I am loved,I can love who I am When I am cared for,I can care for myself When I am treated as someone,I can feel like someone
Speak to me,so I may learn to listen Expose the world to me,so I may see it's beauty Look into my eyes,so I may feel I am seen
If ur good to me,I must be a good person
When u smile at me,I can smile inside When u let me make choices,I know that I can choose When u give to me,I can give a bit back
When u treat me as succesful,I can learn to succeed When u respect my dreams,I can explore reality When u allow my mistakes,I can accept what they teach
Teach me diversity of thought,so I may be open-minded Help me help others,so I may grow to be selfless Demonstrate ur diligence,so I may earn my way in life
Show me how to laugh,so I may laugh with others Laugh at ur shortcomings,so I may accept my own
1. PracticeIslam as much as you can. 2. Respect your parents. “Heavenlies under the feet of your mother.” -The Prophet Muhammad (Ahmad, Nasa’i) 3. Find a teacher. “For him who follows a path for seeking knowledge, Allah will ease for him the path to Paradise.” Muhammad (Muslim) 4. Keep away from debates & arguments “Verily anger spoils faith as aloe spoils honey.” Prophet Muhammad (Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi
5. Gain a connection to theArabic language.“Indeed, We have sent it down as an Arabic Qur’an that you might understand.” (Qur’an, 12:2)
6. UnderstandIslam’s organic nature. “Those who make things hard for themselves will be destroyed (He said it 3 times)” Muhammad (Muslim)
byk selebriti kite miliki rambut yg cantik,sihat dan bersinar.Ingin tahu apa rahsia mereka?? JOM kite kongsi antara tip-tip yg diamalkan oleh mereka!
MEMOTONG HUJUNG RAMBUT
*Rambut akan lebih sihat dan cantik sekiranya kamu rajin utk potong setiap hujung rambut setiap 6 atau 8 minggu sekali.Ini juga antara amalan setiap selebriti yg mmg betul2 jage rambut diorg.ada kalanya kite x sedar luaran rambut mmg tampak cantik tapi sebenarnye ujung2 rambut tu haa yg dah rosak.haiyyaa!
Jadi utk buang rambut rosak nie,amalan memotong ujung rambut wajib diguna pakai.Selain tu, andai u gurlz biarkn rambut tu tumbuh panjang tanpa potong ujung rambut tuh secara kerap,akibatnyer rambut u gurlz akn tumbuh tidak sama panjang..haa! NAMPAK x? hehehee...so,secare xlangsung akn buatkn rambut u gurl tambah teruk.so...RAJIN RAJINLAH ke saloon kew? or suh mak pootng kn kew? xpun member2 u gurlz yg teringin nk hantam kautim rambut utk potong rambut ya! bak kate..walaupun pakai tudung,RAMBUT TETAP MAHKOTA seorg pompuan! lepas nie..jage jage la rambut anda!
*JAGA PEMAKANAN!
haaa!mungkin u gurlz dah biase dgr selebriti begitu gile gile kage pemaknn mereka kn? sebenarnya bkn semata mata bergantung kpd apa yg diletakkan di rambut aje,tapi faktor mknn juga harus dititk beratkn.Ugurlz! nk taw x? Rambut kite nie..sebenarnye tumbuh melalui protein taw! jadi bagi dptkn rambut yg cantik dan sihat amat penting andai Ugulz lebih lebih ckit ambik protein! then minum AIR byk2 utk membantu rambut dan kulit kepala kite bebas dprd any problemz!bak kate,CAM DIVA KAN! hehehehexx..
*PERBARUKAN GAYA RAMBUT
bykn selebriti sering tampil dgn gaya berbeza.jadi Ugurlz jgnlaa hadkn sgt diri Ugurlz hanya dgn satu gaya rambut jer..pelbagaikn rambut korang taw dgn gaya lurus kew,kerinting kew?or cube potongan yg pelbagai fesyen bagi nampakkan Ugurlz sentiasa mengikut peredaran zaman.Lihat je la,KATE MOSS buat gaya FRINGE,perghh! nampak awex cun taw..kekekekeke...
*CUCI RAMBUT DGN CARA BETUL
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wishing JUMAH MUBARAK i.e happy friday
is a Bida'ah, an innovation in the Deen of islam which is a GRAVE sin
because, we cant innovate any new thing in the religion of islam
by ourself as Allah says in Quran, just to obey ALLAH
and obey and follow the commandment of Rasool Allah
SWS and never Rasool Allah SWS ever wished any1
jumah mubarak/happy friday nor the companions
all the companions of the prophet Muhammad SWS
ever wished any1 neither, the sons and grandsons of the companions of the Allah
wished any ths day so, are we claiming,
tht the prophet and his companions were not knowing tht ths jumah is mubaarak, i.,e hapy1?and thts y they didnt wished..
and, we knows more than them???????
Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger, and beware (of evil): if ye do turn back, know ye that it is Our Messenger’s duty to proclaim (the Message) in the clearest manner. (5: 92).
O ye who believe! obey Allah, and obey the Messenger, and those charged with authority among you. If ye differ in anything among yourselves, refer it to Allah and His Messenger, if ye do believe in Allah and the Last Day: that is best, and most suitable for final determination. (4: 59).
Say: “Obey Allah, and obey the Messenger: but if ye turn away, he is only responsible for the duty placed on him and ye for that placed on you. If ye obey him, ye shall be on right guidance.(24: 54).
And whoever obeys Allâh and His Messenger, Allâh shall admit him in the Gardens underneath which rivers flow. (4:13)
And whoever obeys Allâh and His Messenger, he has won a great success. (33:71)
And we sent no messenger, but that he should be obeyed by the leave of Allâh. (4:64)
“Say (O Muhammad to mankind): ‘If you (really) love Allaah, then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic Monotheism, follow the Qur’aan and the Sunnah), Allaah will love you and forgive you your sins’”
[Aal ‘Imraan 3:31]
“Follow what has been sent down unto you from your Lord (the Qur’aan and Prophet Muhammad’s Sunnah), and follow not any Awliyaa’ (protectors and helpers who order you to associate partners in worship with Allaah), besides Him (Allaah). Little do you remember!”
[al-A’raaf 7:3]
“And verily, this is My straight path, so follow it, and follow not (other) paths, for they will separate you away from His path”
[al-A’naam 6:153]
The Islamic Shariah contains the rules for all past incidents, all the current problems and the incidents that may occur. No incident happens, no problem occurs and no event takes place without there being a rule for it. The Islamic Shariah has encompasse d all actions of human beings in a complete and comprehens ive manner.
"And We have sent down to you the Book(The Quran) as an exposition (Tibyaan) of everything ."(16:89).
So the Shariah either presentsan evidence from the Quran and Hadith regarding the action or thing, or gives the divine reason for its legislation.
And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The most truthful of speech is the Book of Allaah and the best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad, and the most evil of things are those which are newly-invented. .” And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever innovates anything in this matter of ours (i.e., Islam), that is not part of it will have it rejected.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 2697; Muslim, no. 1718). According to a version narrated by Muslim, “Whoever doe anything that is not in accordance with this matter of ours (i.e., Islam), will have it rejected.”
...I'm your baby. You don't know me yet, I'm only a few
weeks old. You're going to find out about me soon, though, I promise.
Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I've got
beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don't have it yet, but I
will when I'm born. I'm going to be your only child, and you'll call me
your one and only. I'm going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we
have each other. We'll help each other, and love each other. I want to
be a doctor when I grow up.
You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn't
wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was
perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I
will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I
know it already.
Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about
me! ...He wasn't happy, Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don't think that
you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called
wedlock, and money, and bills, and stuff I don't think I understand
yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay. Then he did
something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and
your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay... but I was very sad
for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That's a sound I don't like. It
doesn't make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after,
and he hugged you again. You forgave him, Mommy, but I'm not sure if I
do. It wasn't right. You say he loves you... why would he hurt you? I
don't like it, Mommy.
Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and
you're so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes,
and you were so so so happy. You sing to me, too. You have the most
beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I'm
happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait
and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will
make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.
I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your
hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love
you, Mommy.
Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting
funny and he wasn't talking right. He said he didn't want you. I don't
know why, but that's what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry,
Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won't let you get hurt! I promise to
protect you. Daddy is bad. I don't care if you think that he is a good
person, I think he's bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn't want
us. He doesn't like me. Why doesn't he like me, Mommy?
You didn't talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?
It's been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven't talked to me or
touched me or anything since that. Don't you still love me, Mommy? I
still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when
you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug
me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don't you do
that when you're awake, any more?
I'm 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren't you proud of me? We're going
somewhere today, and it's somewhere new. I'm excited. It looks like a
hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did I tell
you that? I hope you're as excited as I am. I can't wait.
...Mommy, I'm getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don't
know what you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think
something's going to happen soon. I'm really, really, really scared,
Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love
you!
Mommy, what are they doing to me!? It hurts! Please make them stop! It
feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!
Don't worry Mommy, I'm safe. I'm in heaven with the angels now. They
told me what you did, and they said it's called an abortion.
Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don't you love me any more? Why did you
get rid of me? I'm really, really, really sorry if I did something
wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why
don't you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want
to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care
about me, and not talk to me. Didn't I love you enough? Please say
you'll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and
see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don't want to be here, I
want you to love me again! I'm really really really sorry if I did
something wrong. I love you!
Salahudin Al-Ayubi atau nama sebenarnya Sholahuddin Yusuf bin Ayyub, Atau Saladin –menurut panggilan orang Barat– lahir pada tahun 1137M, di kota Tikrit, berhampiran dengan Sungai Tigris, kira-kira 140 km dari kota Baghdad.
Beliau dari suku bangsa Kurdish dan semasa dilahirkan keluarganya dihalau dari Tikrit oleh pemerintahBaghdadkerana dituduh penghianat. Dalam perjalanan ke Alleppo Salahudin dilahirkan sehingga ayahnya berkata Anakku ini dilahirkan ketika aku dalam kesusahan. Aku bimbang kelahirannya membawa sial. Tidak siapa menyangka bayi itu menjadi pahlawan terbilang.
Semasa kecilnya Salahuddin Al Ayubi mendapat pendidikan ilmu ketenteraan daripada bapa saudaranya Asaddin Shirkuh atau Assaddudin Shirkuwah seorang panglima perang.
Salahuddin dibesarkan sama seperti anak-anak Kurdish biasa. Pendidikannya juga seperti orang lain, belajar ilmu sains di samping seni peperangan dan mempertahankan diri.Tiada seorangpun yang menyangka suatu hari nanti dia akan merampas kembali bumi Palestin dari tentera Salib. Walau bagaimanapun Allah telah mentakdirkannya untuk menjadi pemimpin besar pada zamannya dan Allah telah menyediakan dan memudahkan jalan-jalannya ke arah itu.
Kerjayanya bermula sebagai tentera berkuda Al-Malik Nuruddin, sultan Aleppo, kemudian dia diperintahkan untuk pergi ke Mesir. Pada masa itu Mesir diperintah oleh kerajaan Fatimiyah yang berfahaman Syiah. Pada mulanya Salahudin berasa berat hati hendak berangkat ke Mesir kerana lebih sayangkan Aleppo. Sesungguhnya Allah perancang yang Maha Bijaksana seperti yang termaktub dalam Al Quran; Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu (Al-Baqarah:216).
Apabila Salahudin sampai di Mesir keadaan tiba-tiba berubah. Dia yakin Allah telah memberi tanggung jawab kepadanya untuk membebaskan Baitul Muqaddis dari penaklukan Kristian. Dia menjadi seorang yang zuhud dan tidak tergoda dengan kesenangan dunia.
Stanley Lane Poole mencatatkan bahawa Salahuddin mengubah cara hidupnya kepada yang lebih keras. Dia bertambah warak dan menjalani hidup yang lebih berdisiplin dan sederhana. Dia mengenepikan corak hidup senang dan memilih corak hidup sederhana yang menjadi contoh kepada tenteranya. Dia menumpukan seluruh tenaganya untuk membina kekuatan Islam bagi menawan semula Jerusalem. Salahuddin pernah berkata, Ketika Allah menganugerahkan aku bumi Mesir, aku yakin DIA juga bermaksud Palestin untukku. Ini menyebabkan DIA memenangkan perjuangan Islam.
Sehubungan dengan itu Salahudin telah menyerahkan dirinya untuk jalan jihad. Fikiran Salahuddin sentiasa tertumpu kepada jihad di jalan Allah. Bahauddin, jurutulis Sultan Salahudin mencatatkan, semangat Salahuddin sentiasa berkobar-kobar untuk berjihad menentang tentera Salib telah menyebabkan jihad menjadi tajuk perbincangan yang paling digemarinya.Dia sentiasa meluangkan seluruh tenaganya untuk memperkuat pasukan tenteranya, mencari mujahid-mujahid dan senjata untuk tujuan berjihad. Jika ada sesiapa yang bercakap kepadanya berkenaan jihad dia akan memberikan sepenuh perhatian. Sehubungan dengan ini dia lebih banyak di dalam khemah perang daripada duduk di istana bersama sanak keluarga. Siapa sahaja yang menggalakkannya berjihad akan mendapat kepercayaannya. Apabila dia telah memulakan jihad melawan tentera salib dia akan menumpahkan seluruh perhatiannya kepada persiapan perang dan menaikkan semangat tenteranya.
Dalam medan peperangan dia bagaikan seorang ibu yang kehilangan anak. Dia akan bergerak dari satu penjuru ke penjuru yang lain dalam usaha menaikkan semangat tenteranya supaya benar-benar berjihad di jalan Allah. Dia sanggup pergi ke pelosok tanah air dengan mata yang berlinang mengajak umat Islam supaya bangkit membela Islam. Ketika perang berlansung dia lebih suka berpuasa. Semasa mengepung Acre dia demam namun tetap berpuasa. Doktor peribadinya berkata bahawa Salahuddin hanya berbuka dengan beberapa suap makanan sahaja kerena tidak mahu perhatiannya kepada peperangan terganggu.
Kemenangan peperangan Hittin telah membuka jalan mudah kepada Salahuddin untuk menawan Baitul Muqaddis. Bahauddin telah mencatatkan bahawa Salahuddin sangat-sangat berhajat untuk menawan baitul Muqaddis Hajatnya tercapai pada hari jumaat, 27 Rajab, 583H, iaitu pada hari Israk Mikraj, Salahuddin telah memasuki Masjidil al Aqsa.
Dalam catatan Bahauddin menyatakan inilah hari kemenangan atas kemenangan. Ramai orang yang terdiri dari ulama, pembesar-pembesar, peniaga dan orang-orang biasa datang merayakan kemenangan ini. Kemudiannya ramai lagi orang datang dari pantai dan hampir semua ulama-ulama dari Mesir dan Syria datang untuk mengucapkan tahniah kepada Salahuddin. Boleh dikatakan hampir semua pembesar-pembesar datang. Laungan Allahhu Akbar dan Tiada tuhan melainkan Allah telah bergema ke angkasa.
Sifat penyayang dan belas kasihan Salahuddin semasa peperangan ini sangat jauh berbeda daripada kekejaman tentera Salib. Ahli sejarah Kristian pun mengakui hal ini. Lane-Poole mengesahkan bahwa kebaikan hati Salahuddin telah mencegahnya daripada membalas dendam. Dia telah menuliskan yang Salahuddin telah menunjukkan ketinggian akhlaknya ketika orang-orang Kristian menyerah kalah.Tenteranya sangat bertanggung jawab, menjaga peraturan di setiap jalan, mencegah segala bentuk kekerasan hinggakan tiada kedengaran orang-orang Kristian diperlakukan tidak baik.
Selanjutnya Lane-Poole menuliskan bagaimana pula tindak-tanduk tentera Kristian ketika menawan Baitul Muqaddis kali pertama pada tahun 1099. Telah tercatat dalam sejarah bahawa ketika Godfrey dan Tancred menunggang kuda di jalan-jalan Jerusalem jalan-jalan itu 'tersumbat' dengan mayat-mayat, orang-orang Islam yang tidak bersenjata disiksa, dibakar dan dipanah dari jarak dekat dari atas bumbung dan menara rumah-rumah ibadah. Darah yang membasahi bumi yang mengalir dari pembunuhan orang-orang Islam secara beramai-ramai telah mencemarkan kesucian gereja di mana sebelumnya kasih sayang sentiasa diajarkan.
Maka sangat bernasip baik orang-orang Kristian apabila mereka dilayan dengan baik oleh Salahuddin. Lane-Poole juga menuliskan, jika hanya penaklukan Jerusalem sahaja yang diketahui mengenai Salahuddin, maka ia sudah cukup membuktikan dialah seorang penakluk yang paling penyantun dan baik hati di zamannya bahkan mungkin di sepanjang zaman.
Lane-Poole juga menuliskan dalam setiap peperangan Salahuddin sentiasa berbincang dalam majlis yang membuat keputusan-keputusan ketenteraan. Kadang-kadang majlis ini membatalkan keputusan Salahuddin sendiri. Dalam majlis ini tiada siapa yang mempunyai suara lebih berat tiada siapa yang lebih mempengaruhi fikiran Salahuddin. Semuanya sama sahaja. Dalam majlis itu ada adiknya, anak-anaknya, anak saudaranya, sahabat-sahabat lamanya, pembesar-pembesar tentera, kadi, bendahari dan setiausaha. Semuanya mempunyai sumbangan yang sama banyak dalam membuat keputusan. Pendeknya semuanya menyumbang dalam kepakaran masing-masing. Walau apa pun perbincangan dan perdebatan dalam majlis itu, mereka memberikan ketaatan mereka kepada Salahuddin.
Bahauddin bin Shaddad, penasihat utama Salahuddin telah mencatatkan berkenaan kewarakan Salahuddin. Dia sentiasa melakukan sembahyang berjemaah. Bahkan ketika sakitnya pun dia memaksa dirinya berdiri di belakang imam. Dia sentiasa mengerjakan sembahyang Tahajjud. Bahauddin melihatnya sentiasa sembahyang di belakang imam ketika sakitnya, kecuali tiga hari terakhir di mana ia telah tersangat lemah dan selalu pingsan.
Dia tidak pernah tinggal sembahyang fardhu. Tetapi dia tidak pernah membayar zakat harta kerana tidak mempunyai harta yang cukup nisab. Dia sangat murah hati dan akan menyedekahkah apa yang ada padanya kepada fakir miskin dan kepada yang memerlukan hinggakan ketika wafatnya dia tidak meninggalkan harta. Bahauddin juga mencatatkan bahawa Salahuddin tidak pernah meninggalkan puasa Ramadhan kecuali hanya sekali apabila dinasihatkan oleh Kadi Fadhil. Ketika sakitnya pun ia berpuasa sehinggalah doktor menasihat kannya dengan keras supaya berbuka. Lalu ia berbuka dengan hati yang berat sambil berkata, Aku tak tahu bila ajal akan menemuiku. Maka segera ia membayar fidyah.
Dalam catatan Bahauddin juga menunjukkan Salahuddin teringin sangat menunaikan haji ke Mekah tetapi dia tidak pernah berkesempatan. Pada tahun kemangkatannya, keinginannya menunaikan haji telah menjadi-jadi tetapi ditakdirkan tidak kesampaian. Dia sangat gemar mendengar bacaan Quran. Dalam medan peperangan ia acap kali duduk mendegar bacaan Quran para pengawal yang dilawatnya sehingga 3 atau 4 juzuk semalam. Dia mendengar dengan sepenuh hati sehingga air matanya membasahi dagunya.
Dia juga gemar mendengar bacaan hadis Rasulullah saw. Dia akan memerintahkan orang-orang yang bersamanya duduk apabila hadis dibacakan. Apabila ulama hadis datang ke bandar, dia akan pergi mendengar kuliahnya. Kadang kadang dia sendiri membacakan hadis dengan mata yang berlinang.
Salahuddin sangat yakin dan percaya kepada pertolongan Allah. Dia biasa meletakkan segala harapan nya kepada Allah terutama ketika dalam kesusahan. Pada satu ketika dia berada di Jerusalem yang pada masa itu seolah-olah tidak dapat bertahan lagi dari pada kepungan tentera bersekutu Kristian. Walaupun keadaan sangat terdesak dia enggan untuk meninggalkan kota suci itu. Malam itu adalah malam Jumaat musim sejuk. Bahaauddin mencatatkan, Hanya aku dan Salahuddin sahaja pada masa itu. Dia menghabis kan masa malam itu dengan bersembahyang dan munajat.
Aku berada di sebelahnya ketika dahinya mencecah bumi sambil menangis hingga air matanya mambasahi janggutnya dan menitik ke tempat sembahyang. Aku tidak tahu apa yang didoakannya tetapi aku melihat tanda-tanda doanya dikabulkan sebelum hari itu berakhir. Perbalahan berlaku di antara musuh-musuh yang menatijahkan berita baik bagi kami beberapa hari kemudian. Akhirnya tentera salib membuka khemah-khemah mereka dan berangkat.
Salahuddin tidak pernah gentar dengan ramainya tentera Salib yang datang untuk menentangnya. Dalam satu peperangan tentera Salib berjumlah sehingga 600,000 orang, tetapi Salahuddin menghadapinya dengan tentera yang jauh lebih sedikit. Berkat pertolongan Allah mereka menang, membunuh ramai musuh dan membawa ramai tawanan. Ketika mengepung Acre, pada satu petang lebih dari 70 kapal tentera musuh beserta senjata berat mendarat. Boleh dikatakan semua orang merasa gentar kecuali Salahuddin. Dalam satu peperangan yang sengit semasa kepungan ini, serangan mendadak besar-besaran dari musuh telah menyebabkan tentera Islam kalang kabut. Tentera musuh telah merempuh khemah-khemat tentera Islam bahkan telah sampai ke khemah Salahuddin dan mencabut benderanya. Tetapi Salahuddin bertahan dengan teguhnya dan berjaya mengatur tenteranya kembali sehingga dia berjaya membalikkan kekalahan menjadi kemenangan.
Musuh telah kalah teruk dan berundur meninggalkan lebih kurang 7,000 mayat-mayat. Bahauddin ada mencatatkan betapa besarnya cita-cita Salahuddin. Suatu hari Salahuddin pernah berkata kepadanya, Aku hendak beri tahu padamu apa yang ada dalam hatiku. Apabila Allah mentakdirkan seluruh tanah suci ini di bawah kekuasaanku, aku akan serahkan tanah-tanah kekuasaanku ini kepada anak-anakku, kuberikan arahan-arahanku yang terakhir lalu ku ucapkan selamat tinggal. Aku akan belayar untuk menaklukkan pulau-pulau dan tanah-tanah yang lain. Aku tak akan meletakkan senjata ku selagi masih ada orang-orang kafir di atas muka bumi ini sehingga ajalku sampai.
Salahuddin memiliki asas pengetahuan agama yang kukuh. Dia juga mengetahui setiap suku-suku kaum Arab dan adat-adat resam mereka. Bahkan dia mengetahui sifat-sifat kuda Arab walaupun dia sebenarnya orang Kurdish. Dia sangat gemar mengumpulkan pengetahuan dan maklumat dari kawan-kawannya dan utusan-utusannya yang sentiasa berjalan dari satu penjuru ke satu penjuru negerinya. Di samping Quran dia juga banyak menghafal syair-syair Arab. Lane-Poole juga ada menuliskan bahawa Salahuddin berpengetahuan yang dalam dan gemar untuk mendalami lagi bidang-bidang akidah, ilmu hadis serta sanad-sanad dan perawi-perawinya, syariah dan usul figh dan juga tafsir Quran.
Kejayaan terbesar Sultan Salahudin Al Ayubi ialah mengalahkan tentera Salib pada tahun 1171. Baginda memerintah selama 22 tahun telah membina kubu pertahanan dikenali sebagai al-Qalaah (Citadel) yang mana melindungi kota Kaherah dan kota lama al-Fustat dari serangan musuh. Selepas beliau meninggal pada tahun 1193 di Damsyik, Syria, pewaris-pewarisnya telah memerintah Mesir sehingga tahun 1250.
Stanley Lane Poole (1914) seorang penulis Barat menyifatkan Salahuddin sebagai seorang yang memilliki kelebihan daripada orang lain kerana menunjukkan akhlak yang mulia. Menurutnya pada hari tentera salib menakluk Jerusalem pada tahun 1099, mereka telah menyembelih orang-orang Islam termasuk wanita dan kanak-kanak, bermula dari pagi hinggalah ke tengah malam. Pada keesokan harinya mayat-mayat orang Islam bertimbun setinggi paras lutut di sepanjang jalan di Jerusalem.
Tetapi apabila Sultan Salahudin al-Ayubi menakluk kembali Jerusalem pada 1187, tentera Islam tidak membunuh seorang pun penduduk Jerusalem , malah pada keesokan harinya Salehudin telah membenarkan penganut semua agama (tidak kira sama ada Islam atau Kristian atau Yahudi) untuk bersembahyang di tempat-tempat suci masing-masing di bandar tersebut.
Satu lagi kebaikan yang ditunjukan oleh Sultan Salahudin ialah kepada musuhnya Raja Richard Berhati Singa yang datang dari England. Ketika peperangan sedang berlansung, Raja Richard jatuh sakit lalu Sultan Saladin mengirimnya buah-buahan segar, air sejuk dan seorang dokter. Kerana terharu dengan kebaikan Sultan Salahudin maka akhirnya ditandatangani perjanjian damai pada 1 September 1192 sehingga orang-orang Eropah berasa takjub bagaimana agama Islam boleh melahirkan seorang pahlawan yang baik seperti Salahudin Al Ayubi.
Sebelum meninggal dunia Sultan Salahudin Al Ayubi berpesan kepada anak-anaknya; "Jangan kamu menumpahkan darah, kerana apabila darah telah terpercik tidak ada yang tertidur."
Pada hari Rabu, 27 Safar, 589H, pulanglah Salahuddin ke rahmatullah pada usia 57 tahun. Bahauddin bin Shaddad, penasihat utama Salahuddin telah menulis mengenai hari-hari terakhir Salahuddin.
Pada malam 27 Safar, 12 hari selepas jatuh sakit, dia telah menjadi sangat lemah. Syeikh Abu Jaafar seorang yang warak telah diminta menemani Salahuddin di Istana supaya membaca al Quran. Memang pada malam itu telah nampak tanda-tanda berakhirnya hayat Salahuddin. Syeikh Abu Jaafar telah duduk di tepi katilnya semenjak 3 hari yang lepas membacakan Quran. Dalam masa ini Salahuddin selalu pingsan.
Apabila Syeikh Abu Jaafar membacakan ayat, Dialah Allah, tiada tuhan melainkan Dia, Yang mengetahui yang ghaib dan yang nyata (Al-Hasyr: 22), Salahuddin membuka matanya sambil senyum, mukanya berseri dan denga nada yang gembira ia berkata, Memang benar tidak ada Tuhan selain Allah. Selepas dia mengucapkan kata-kata itu dia menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir sebelum subuh, 27 Safar.
Seterusnya Bahauddin menceritakan Salahuddin tidak meninggalkan harta kecuali 1 dinar 47 dirham. Harta yang ditinggalkannya tidak cukup untuk belanja pengkebumiannya. Bahkan kain kafan pun diberikan oleh seorang menterinya.
