Be her type. Ok, so this one isn’t completely fair, but it falls under the category of accepting the things you cannot change when thinking about how to attract women. At day’s end, most girls have a particular type of man that they are attracted to, and no matter how great you might be, if you are not the her type, you will have to put more effort into this thing. It will be a different kind of effort. This is where you leave the regular road taught to you by almost everybody and step a whole different place. Now you have to implement the explosive player tactics.
Be clean cut. Lucky for you, this is something you can control. Make a promise to yourself today, as you read this article, that you will never again be the guy picking his visibly dirty fingernails and trying to figure out why you can’t attract a nice girl. If cleanliness, or at least the appearance there of, isn’t your strong suit, it is probably safe to attribute your inability to attract a girl to that.
Be her aphrodisiac; smell good. Hands down, girls love a man that smells good. Once you make a commitment to being clean, commit to spraying on a few squirts of cologne. One of best strategies for drawing all these beautiful ladies to you is being the man that walks by and leaves a lingering scent. The gesture itself is not only sexy, but also memorable, because when they smell that scent again, the girl will automatically think of you.
Be stylish. So you don’t have to be the world’s best dresser, but your style should be contemporary enough to not cause any red flags in the fashion department. Obviously, wide-legged pants and butterfly collars would not be considered attractive to girls, but a pair of jeans, a nice polo shirt and some trendy but practical sneakers will not only attract a girl, but leave her feeling confident about your fashion sense.
Be considerate. Even if you haven’t exchanged as much as a glimpse with the girl, holding the door for her, helping her remove her coat, or pulling out her seat are all things that would reveal just how considerate you are and increase a girl’s attraction to you. If you are really trying to attract a girl, show her that chivalry is in fact, not dead, and that there are still a few good ones to pick from.
Two words to adequately sum up all of the aforementioned tips are “Be memorable.” Leave a lasting impression. Because the truth is that even after you’ve succeeded in attracting the girl, if you haven’t done anything to make yourself stand out in her memory, you might find yourself explaining to her who you are when you call her a week later trying to schedule a date. As if the first conversation isn’t awkward enough, you don’t want to spend five minutes of that conversation reminding her of who you are. Being clean, smelling good, having style, showing chivalry, and accepting that you weren’t created t obe liked all girls, but the girl, indeed makes you that much more attractive and brings you closer to your goal of learning how to attract women.
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